i am here to help

some people are saying they will leave but continue to flame this subject.

I want to say also some words of what happend at the moment, because I feel like all this happens because I was here. All begin with my RP with El Lobo.
I already have no problem with anyone here in the fed, but what Chris said yesterday in the chat was not fair, it was unfriendly, it was insolent and cruel. He meant to be the best here perhaps some also believe this, but we all hear that always and always again. But the wordly attack about my weakness dont impress me much. The game is fun for me, my personal central point lay in other things in my life.
But what annoy me much is the point when chris get into personal things. I want to define for my own what I want to tell all here and what not. And its double insolent because he said not the truth about my personal life, he said anything he wont to say because he dont know anything about me expecially the fact that I have a daughter, and that knows a lot, because I said if often in the chat.
Chris worldy attacks happens very often here and he interfere nearly in every RP. He nearyl always interfere in the RP between Lobo, Paulley and me. I always try to include his statements because i dont want to say anything but it often disturb me.
If I can be sure that everythings going again ok here, when i leave, I would be the first person who will done it, because I never want to bring some conflict in here.

Paulley wrote:Say what??... what did i do?

sorry paulley u didnt do nothing lol i just put name randomly :p

Blimey, I guess a lot has happened while I have been at work.

As the other topic has been locked (I can only think it was to stop Chris looking like an even bigger fool) I can only think to add my thoughts here.

I know some have said to stay out of this but I won't, I rejoined here as hangman promised things would change, i turned down the chance to join many other decent feds because I felt that with the likes of Lobo, Paulley, Kal, Theram, YGirl things could work out here, I asked hangman for a one month contract only to see if things changed...well don't I feel an idiot I should have known just how much one poisioned person can effect an entire fed.

So...what to do about it?

Option 1) Do not add any more rp's here, do not post on the forum and most definately do not join chat, see out the remainder of the contract and then look elsewhere, it really isn't hard to get another fed.

Option 2) Carry on as before but completely ignore Chris in everything he does, then when the contract ends leave to join another fed

Option 3) Leave now, cut my losses for a second time and join somewhere else.

Personally I am leaning on Option 1 at the moment, One thing should remain clear however I will not be with this fed at the end of my contract if Chris is.

This is not a threat, it is simply a fact, I do not expect anyone to do anything about this situation as nothing ever happens.

And Yellow Girl, trust me when I say none of this is your fault, you have only tried to contribute good things to this fed unlike Chris, it is a shame he has made you feel like this.

Some will say this is an over reaction as surely this is just the internet, but I believe you should treat people with some respect in all walks of life, just because you have a pc to hid behind does not mean you have to be a complete arsehole.

Thanks

Leon

Leon Heart wrote:Blimey, I guess a lot has happened while I have been at work.

As the other topic has been locked (I can only think it was to stop Chris looking like an even bigger fool) I can only think to add my thoughts here.

I know some have said to stay out of this but I won't, I rejoined here as hangman promised things would change, i turned down the chance to join many other decent feds because I felt that with the likes of Lobo, Paulley, Kal, Theram, YGirl things could work out here, I asked hangman for a one month contract only to see if things changed...well don't I feel an idiot I should have known just how much one poisioned person can effect an entire fed.

So...what to do about it?

Option 1) Do not add any more rp's here, do not post on the forum and most definately do not join chat, see out the remainder of the contract and then look elsewhere, it really isn't hard to get another fed.

Option 2) Carry on as before but completely ignore Chris in everything he does, then when the contract ends leave to join another fed

Option 3) Leave now, cut my losses for a second time and join somewhere else.

Personally I am leaning on Option 1 at the moment, One thing should remain clear however I will not be with this fed at the end of my contract if Chris is.

This is not a threat, it is simply a fact, I do not expect anyone to do anything about this situation as nothing ever happens.

And Yellow Girl, trust me when I say none of this is your fault, you have only tried to contribute good things to this fed unlike Chris, it is a shame he has made you feel like this.

Some will say this is an over reaction as surely this is just the internet, but I believe you should treat people with some respect in all walks of life, just because you have a pc to hid behind does not mean you have to be a complete arsehole.

Thanks

Leon

i am not an ass hole my friend and there a lot off ppl who agree with me i gave an opinion u shouldn't stick ur nose and honestly wen u left i didn't notice u left cuse leg was going well

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lol sorry was thinking of something else so i meant fed and u can leave again cant u bileve me i don't need more love unless u wana work this out tell me whats up but if u wana whine i am not gona be quiet and let u do it i already apologized to yellow cuse she is the only girl who desrve it..

Believe me Chris, the last thing I want to give you is love!

This is the last reply I will give to you, you clearly are a very sad child.

bye

Leon Heart wrote:Believe me Chris, the last thing I want to give you is love!

This is the last reply I will give to you, you clearly are a very sad child.

bye

lol bye bye mate or w,e British say..

hmm... ok personally Chris i think you have to set some boundaries for yourself.. between you and your character.

We understand that your character is a heel but it doesnt excuse you from being impolite on the rest of the forum... not every post has to be replied with swear words and rudeness... i dont know you and i dont pretend to but surely even you notice your anger issues and can clearly see that you have a tendency to lash out..

Every forum is supposed to be a community and you as yourself should be always polite when talking out of character, and just have some common decency to treat people how you would like to be treated yourself.

Im not getting at you chris but your (as in yourself not your character) attitude towards people has often come up in conversation because its just not necessary..

I think you should try to seperate yourself from your character abit... i simply used a secondary character, BBC, to be my evil (heel) side while outside the RP im simply Paulley.. you need to set a clear boundary to be polite civil and generally nice outside all RP to show people that you can be a well rounded normal civilized person.

I know the nice Chris is in there somewhere xk... let him out for some fresh air for abit

You have never been that bad with me but that's only cus im extremely mellow and i just dont take what you say over seriously. Others do and you need to be a bit more considerate towards them.. For the most part you have been good with me (IE requesting participation in an RP, and then going with the direction i took it which wasnt what you expected) and every time you have stepped over the line (IE on the pawnage thread after i said by default i could defeat you) i just laugh it off... life is give and take and sometimes you gotta be able to take a little and let it slide.

Anyway my point is you gotta make some distance... for example You are not the champion of this fed.. Chris xk the character is... You could not beat everyone here.. but maybe your build can... just try referring to your character in the third person once in a while.

OK superlong post hopefully people got the gist of this and dont take offense by it cus i dont mean any...

ok WHY THE FUCK IS EVERYONE ARGUING CAN SOMEONE JUST TELL ME THIS IS ALL STARTING TO PISS ME OFF.

We all need to distance ourselfs from our character. I dont think it will solve the problem not posting it will only be bad for our fed. One way for we all solve our differences is communication. Not rude communication but nice and cordial communication.

Hangman,

Am i getting a contract soon??